2021.12.08 12:26 Myght_Dyno [LFA] Adlynn Summergrove, Female High Elf Forge Domain Cleric/Storm Soul Sorcerer
Before anyone reads this, I am not good at writing paragraphs. I'll try my best to make this as interesting through a bulleted list as I can. This character is generally open concept, so I would like to see what everyone comes up with. Feel free to ask me any questions if there is any and I'll do my best to answer.
Full Name: Adlynn Summergrove
Race/Ethnic Group: High Elf
Class/Occupation: Forge Domain Cleric/Storm Sorcerer|Sailor
Character Nature: Fantasy
Character Details Gender: Female
2021.12.08 12:26 fam_bf_fight Out first morning home with our newborn daughter, my(33f) boyfriend(40m) took his clothes off to make my sister(29f) uncomfortable so she'd leave my house after she called him "trash" and a "teenage boy-man"
The title basically sums it up, neither of them are willing to apologize to each other. I can provide some more backstory, but I'm really at a loss for how to proceed, any advice would be appreciated.
My boyfriend and I had been going out for 9 months when the pandemic started, he began working remotely and my workplace closed. His house is basically stripped to the studs (has been for years as it's a really old house and he works on it in his spare time) so he moved into my place with me and my two children (7 and 5). By August I asked him to move out because I was having a hard time managing the increased household workload / bills associated with him living in my house, but we remained a couple and he would visit a few nights a week.
I decided on a career change for health reasons, so was out of work when we got pregnant that October. He really wanted to keep the baby, I was less certain as I was just about to start University to finish a BSc I had started a decade ago, had two older children, was in poor health, didn't have a job, and our relationship wasn't in a great place. I communicated all this to him, but he really wanted to keep the baby, so we did. I started University three months pregnant and wrote an organic chemistry test the day she was born. He moved back into my house a month before she was born.
While we were at the hospital, my little sister was watching my two older kids, and was apparently upset at the state she found my house in (she used to come over and help clean and take care of the kids a lot) because when we got home from the hospital the kids said that she had said that "He doesn't help your poor sick mother enough." He was super offended by this and saw it as her attempting to sabotage his relationship with my kids.
He decided to confront her about it, and this is when she called him "trash" and "teenage man-boy" and he asked her to leave, then when she did not, took off his clothes to try and get her to leave my house by making her uncomfortable. When she did not leave, he ran into the room where the baby and I were sleeping and demanded that I make her leave and that I choose between him and her.
I fucking lost it. He backtracked on the "choose" thing pretty quickly, and I asked my sister to leave, and she did, and hasn't been back since.
In my opinion, he's more in the wrong here. I know she started it with cruel words (which were possibly more painful as they have a hint of truth), and talking to my kids, which was not appropriate, but I don't really think anything she did justifies his response, and I feel like she was trying to protect / support me.
He refuses to apologize, and my whole family is refusing to include him until he does. It's been five months now. I think that is fair, but it really really sucks for me and the kids. My sister doesn't come over to help anymore, and she was a huge source of support for me, and she's so good with the kids and they absolutely adore her. (He said we don't need her help anyways, which feels pretty rich to me as the one who does the cleaning and childcare, on top of my BSc work) My other sister won't let her daughters come over to my house to play anymore, and they're my kids best friends. She feels his behaviour was an act of intimidation and sexual violence and doesn't want her daughters around him until he acknowledges his behaviour. I feel bad whenever I got to their house because I know it's excluding him.
He said he'd apologize if I write a script for him, but he won't mean it. I told him that was a shitty thing to say, and no. We talk about the situation every month or so, my Dad tried talking to him, but he just doesn't believe his actions were more severe than hers. I haven't asked her to apologize to him for what she said, and I don't really want to. I think he should be able to own up to his mistake....but I guess he doesn't think he made one. Any advice?
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